- full medical/psych eval for him - for depression, bipolar disorder or whatever the problem is (including taking meds)
- internet accountability
- individual counseling for him - need to get to the bottom of why he continuously seeks out new relationships on the internet and that go beyond the internet to the phone and to seeking out women locally
- couples counseling with a chaplain - need to figure out how to speak each other's language and hone our communication skills
- must work together with the money and bills
- must show interest in me as a woman, not just in the bedroom - I want romanced
- must actively partner with me in this family and household - not do all the housework or all the childcare or anything like that but PARTNER with me - share the load, divide up responsibilities more evenly, yes, taking into consideration that he has another job that he goes to all day
- must be more involved with family time and the children's activities
- no female friends that are not mutual friends and no excessive amounts of time spent with even the mutual friends (and definitely no alone time behind closed doors)- if he has a female friend that is not a mutual friend (ie: someone he plays online games with), then he cannot "hide" her from me and I need to be able to talk to her if I wanted to (which is unlikely that I will want to unless he starts acting secretive)
- must have each other's email passwords
- must be on his Myspace friends list
- attend chapel as a family
- must have access to cell phone call records
Sunday, January 6, 2008
conditions
Thinking about conditions to reconciliation (I'm sure he has his for me but these are ones I'm thinking of for him).
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